This project shown through the form of a book, specifically explores the mirrored comparison between my mother and my own relationship experiences. Documented through photographs, poems and letters, the project focuses on the debate surrounding nurture vs nature. I begin unravelling questions on whether our behaviours are taught, or inherently part of our character? Does our family trauma affect the way we perceive memory, relationships and love? The book is divided into two sections, to my Pebble, with love and N...n, and explores the themes of relationship, violence, abuse, love, loss, and femininity. From accepting the past through the form of phototherapy, the project has ultimately enabled me to fix the broken dynamic within my family.